"you are responsible for your role in a relationship. How you respond to people > how people treat you. If you dont like the way someone treats you, then you change it. If you carry on with it, then youre telling that person its okay to treat you like that. It becomes your fault.

If i did what i wanted instead of fretting about who would hate me as a result, then id be happier. At a basic level, id have done what i wanted; at a top level, i wld have found out who truly loved me and would have stuck with me. '
-the chocolate run

What a bimbotic girly but apt book.