/Yeah its not about just tahan-ing for the sake of the marriage certificate or children, but actually living out the commitments made and preserving the sanctity of the union. Tough luck man. I used to think that's the only thing that can make me leave my spouse. But over the years I have realised that him breaking his commitment to you does not nullify your commitment to him/

'through thick and thin'..

didnt see it that way